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THE KISS And its History
THE KISS And its History
BY Dr CHRISTOPHER NYROP Professor of Romance Philology at the University of Copenhagen TRANSLATED BY WILLIAM FREDERICK HARVEY M.A., Hertford College, Oxford; Barrister-at-Law of the Inner Temple; Lecturer in English at the University of Lund (Sweden); sometime Professor of English Literature at the University of Malta LONDON SANDS & CO. 12 BURLEIGH STREET, STRAND 1901 TO WALTER BENSON, Esquire I DEDICATE MY MODEST PART IN THIS BOOK IN TOKEN OF A FRIENDSHIP WHICH HAS GROWN STAUNCHER WITH
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TRANSLATOR’S PREFACE
TRANSLATOR’S PREFACE
The following treatise, which is the work of a Romance philologist of high European reputation, has not only gone through two editions in Denmark, but has also been translated into German, Swedish, and Russian. The popularity which this learned and at the same time charming little book rapidly acquired abroad, and the favourable criticisms passed on it by Continental scholars, have encouraged me to present it to my fellow-countrymen in an English dress. With regard to the numerous poetical quota
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AUTHOR’S PREFACE
AUTHOR’S PREFACE
Dante, in the fifth canto of his Hell , has celebrated the power a kiss may have over human beings. In the course of his wanderings in the nether world, when he has reached the spot where abide those who have sinned through love, he sees two souls that “flutter so lightly in the wind.” These are Francesco da Rimini and her brother-in-law Paolo. He asks Francesco to tell him: Whereto she replies: I have had a special object in prefacing my studies on the history of kissing with these famous verse
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CHAPTER I WHAT IS A KISS?
CHAPTER I WHAT IS A KISS?
It may perhaps seem somewhat futile to begin with discussing what a kiss is: that every child of course knows. We are greeted with kisses directly we enter the world, and kisses follow us all our life long, as Hölty sings— Nevertheless the question is not altogether superfluous. It seems to me even to offer certain points of interest, inasmuch as it is by no means so easy as people may imagine to define what a kiss is. If we turn to the poets we are often put off with the answer that a kiss is s
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CHAPTER II LOVE KISSES
CHAPTER II LOVE KISSES
“ At the time of the world’s creation kisses were created and cruel love.” Thus begins a Cypriot folk-song, and it is assuredly without the shadow of a doubt that among all nations which on the whole know kissing, it gets its sublimest meaning as the expression of love. In the transport of love the lovers’ lips seek each other. When Byron’s Don Juan wanders one evening along the shore with his Haidee, they glance at the moonlit sea which lies outspread before them, and they listen to the lapping
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CHAPTER III AFFECTIONATE KISSES
CHAPTER III AFFECTIONATE KISSES
A kiss can also express feelings from which the erotic element is excluded—feelings that are consequently less ardent and longing, but, most frequently, far deeper and more lasting. A kiss is expressive of love in the widest and most comprehensive meaning of the word, bringing a message of loyal affection, gratitude, compassion, sympathy, intense joy, and profound sorrow. In the first place a kiss is the expression of the deep and intense feeling which knits parents to their offspring. At its en
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CHAPTER IV THE KISS OF PEACE
CHAPTER IV THE KISS OF PEACE
The kiss, as expressive of deep, spiritual love, also came to figure in the primitive Christian Church. Christ has said: “Peace be with you, my peace I give you,” and the members of Christ’s Church gave each other peace symbolically through a kiss. St Paul repeatedly speaks of the “holy kiss” (ϕίλημα ἄγιον), and, in his Epistle to the Romans, writes: “Salute one another with an holy kiss”; and he reiterates this exhortation in both his Epistles to the Corinthians (1, xvi. 20, and 2, xiii. 12), a
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CHAPTER V THE KISS OF RESPECT
CHAPTER V THE KISS OF RESPECT
Margaret of Scotland , who was betrothed to Charles the Seventh’s son, the Dauphin Louis (afterwards Louis XI.), one day walked through a hall where Alain Chartier was sitting asleep in a chair. On perceiving the sleeping poet, she went up to him and kissed him on the lips. Many of her suite were astonished at this, “for nature had, so far as Chartier was concerned, suffered a beautiful and rich mind to take up its abode in an ugly body.” The princess replied that they were not to marvel at what
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CHAPTER VI THE KISS OF FRIENDSHIP
CHAPTER VI THE KISS OF FRIENDSHIP
The kiss is also employed as a conventional salutation between persons who only stand on a footing of friendship or acquaintance with each other. In our northern countries the friendly kiss usually occurs only between ladies, but in this instance its usage is very widely extended. With men and women it is properly only allowable when there is a marked difference in age between both parties, but, on the other hand, it seldom or never takes place between men, with the exception, however, of royal
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CHAPTER VII VARIOUS KINDS OF KISSES
CHAPTER VII VARIOUS KINDS OF KISSES
It has been previously shown by numerous examples that kissing occupies a prominent place in certain ceremonies. It would be easy to multiply instances of this. We know from Roman law that the so-called osculum interveniens , which concerned gifts, was exchanged between engaged couples. The law enacts that, in the event of one of the contracting parties dying before the marriage, only a moiety of the presents are to be returned, provided a kiss was exchanged at the betrothal, but, if no kiss had
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VIII THE ORIGIN OF KISSING
VIII THE ORIGIN OF KISSING
Les coutumes, quelque étranges qu’elles deviennent parfois à la longue, ont généralement des commencements très simples. Max Müller. Usages, however strange they may sometimes become in the long run, have generally very simple beginnings.— Translated from the above....
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CHAPTER VIII THE ORIGIN OF KISSING
CHAPTER VIII THE ORIGIN OF KISSING
With most civilised and many uncivilised nations kissing is the natural expression of love and its kindred emotions. How can it be explained that a kiss has succeeded in getting so deep and comprehensive a significance? How can a trivial movement of the lips interpret our innermost feelings in so eloquent a way that there is not a language which has at its command words approaching to it in argumentative power? Are we face to face with something primitive, or something conventional and derivativ
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